He Dumped Me - 5 Reasons Why He May Break Up With You

We have watched a numerous movies or drama showing scenes of girlfriends crying out loud that "He dumped me". We have been hearing common phrases from people who were so in love and yet, the heart crushed at the end. The person being dumped feels that the world is not good to him, and all he ever wanted is to die. The feeling of dying will usually pass in time. Even though you may be feeling pain right now at this very moment, it will not cause you to die instantly. The feeling is so great, it is understandable but you definitely can get over with it as times goes by. All you need is a lot of effort, help from friends and some adjustments of thinking and of course, time (the crucial factor).

Feeling so crushed and broken from the experience, you will start becoming bitter, cautious, insecure, and less trusting. Looking for another partner will take you too long as the healing part is hard going all through the process of acceptance and change. On the process, you will again talk to yourself saying, "He dumped me". It is like you cannot still accept such fact. You may even start asking desperate questions to yourself, "am I fat?", "am I not a girlfriend/boyfriend material?"," is my hair dry and brittle?", "do I look ugly? When he dumped you, it doesn't mean at all that you are to be blamed. There are just people who cannot give any unjustifiable reasons why they have to end the relationship in just a blink. In order for you to help in thinking what could be the rational and probable reasons of dumping you, here are some basis that you can relate.

1. Love is gone

It will not always follow that when a person courts you, he loves you. Rather, he just likes you. Love is the total value of the relationship and it only works when both lights the fire. The common mistake of the partner is allowing the relationship to be a routine; it is like you already know what you are going to do for the day and the next day with him. The routine may come as boring and the fire will start to lose its burning sensation so as the relationship and you feel that he/she is not the type that you want to settle for and you find your way out.

2. Distance

This does not only pertain literally to long distance relationship. It also pertains to the distance during the middle of the relationship that you and your partner make because you are also busy working, you have your own priorities and other things to attend to. You find time with each other 2-3 times/week and gets worse when you cannot seem to get out from the workplace because of so many things left undone. This is the most common reason why distance can cause the relationship to be miles apart even If you live in one local. Distance can make you realize that love is already gone.

3. Frequent fights

You want to avoid it but it will arise anytime in the relationship. You fight of time constraints, attention deficit, dishonesty and a lot more. Even small fights can mean more to you when you are angry, causing the fight to get bigger. Fight can make the relationship better, but when it happens almost everyday, it is no longer healthy. You both realize that the relationship is not working anymore. Sometimes, only one partner realizes that and will find his/her way out from the relationship.

4. Third party

Love no more, distance and frequent fights can have a great factor why there seemed to have a third party. These factors can cause the spark of the relationship to end and so some partners meet new friends in the work and slowly find a great connection with each other.

5. Lost of connection

What you used to do before together is no longer apparent in the relationship. You lost touch, intimacy and togetherness as partners. The relationship becomes dry and the connection between you starts to vanish.

It doesn't imply that when he dumped you, your life will stop. Life will forever go on and preparation for standing up after a fall is very necessary. Moving over the fact that your partner broke up with you might not be simple. You are going to have to commit to picking yourself up and moving along. Don't hesitate to seek for help when you are in need. You might want to get your immediate family members or best friends to share the burden. Try to look at your own situation through other people point of view. Find out more about yourself and what are your strong points that may help to attract other good people into your life. Go now and improve yourself, take an action! The end result will be a much happier you. It will make you look back on this dark time in your life when you were crying because you were dumped and look at it as one of the best things that ever happened to you and finally said to yourself, "He dumped me but I am much happier now."

Next, learn more about How to Get Over Being Dumped and discover the ways to get back your meaningful lives.

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We have watched a numerous movies or drama showing scenes of girlfriends crying out loud that "He dumped me". We have been hearing common phrases from people who were so in love and yet, the heart crushed at the end. The person being dumped feels that the world is not good to him, and all he ever wanted is to die. The feeling of dying will usually pass in time. Even though you may be feeling pain right now at this very moment, it will not cause you to die instantly. The feeling is so great, it is understandable but you definitely can get over with it as times goes by. All you need is a lot of effort, help from friends and some adjustments of thinking and of course, time (the crucial factor).

Feeling so crushed and broken from the experience, you will start becoming bitter, cautious, insecure, and less trusting. Looking for another partner will take you too long as the healing part is hard going all through the process of acceptance and change. On the process, you will again talk to yourself saying, "He dumped me". It is like you cannot still accept such fact. You may even start asking desperate questions to yourself, "am I fat?", "am I not a girlfriend/boyfriend material?"," is my hair dry and brittle?", "do I look ugly? When he dumped you, it doesn't mean at all that you are to be blamed. There are just people who cannot give any unjustifiable reasons why they have to end the relationship in just a blink. In order for you to help in thinking what could be the rational and probable reasons of dumping you, here are some basis that you can relate.

1. Love is gone

It will not always follow that when a person courts you, he loves you. Rather, he just likes you. Love is the total value of the relationship and it only works when both lights the fire. The common mistake of the partner is allowing the relationship to be a routine; it is like you already know what you are going to do for the day and the next day with him. The routine may come as boring and the fire will start to lose its burning sensation so as the relationship and you feel that he/she is not the type that you want to settle for and you find your way out.

2. Distance

This does not only pertain literally to long distance relationship. It also pertains to the distance during the middle of the relationship that you and your partner make because you are also busy working, you have your own priorities and other things to attend to. You find time with each other 2-3 times/week and gets worse when you cannot seem to get out from the workplace because of so many things left undone. This is the most common reason why distance can cause the relationship to be miles apart even If you live in one local. Distance can make you realize that love is already gone.

3. Frequent fights

You want to avoid it but it will arise anytime in the relationship. You fight of time constraints, attention deficit, dishonesty and a lot more. Even small fights can mean more to you when you are angry, causing the fight to get bigger. Fight can make the relationship better, but when it happens almost everyday, it is no longer healthy. You both realize that the relationship is not working anymore. Sometimes, only one partner realizes that and will find his/her way out from the relationship.

4. Third party

Love no more, distance and frequent fights can have a great factor why there seemed to have a third party. These factors can cause the spark of the relationship to end and so some partners meet new friends in the work and slowly find a great connection with each other.

5. Lost of connection

What you used to do before together is no longer apparent in the relationship. You lost touch, intimacy and togetherness as partners. The relationship becomes dry and the connection between you starts to vanish.

It doesn't imply that when he dumped you, your life will stop. Life will forever go on and preparation for standing up after a fall is very necessary. Moving over the fact that your partner broke up with you might not be simple. You are going to have to commit to picking yourself up and moving along. Don't hesitate to seek for help when you are in need. You might want to get your immediate family members or best friends to share the burden. Try to look at your own situation through other people point of view. Find out more about yourself and what are your strong points that may help to attract other good people into your life. Go now and improve yourself, take an action! The end result will be a much happier you. It will make you look back on this dark time in your life when you were crying because you were dumped and look at it as one of the best things that ever happened to you and finally said to yourself, "He dumped me but I am much happier now."

Next, learn more about How to Get Over Being Dumped and discover the ways to get back your meaningful lives.

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