Why Men Dump Women - A Guys View of It
So, why do men dump women? They might be their girlfriends, wives or just lovers, what is the root reason and answer to the question? One thing's for sure, if you're the one who's been dumped, the quest to find the answer to why men dump women is a real hot potato.
If you're the injured party and you're reading this to find the answer to the six million dollar question then firstly let me start by giving you a virtual hug and a reassurance that if you want to turn the situation back round, I'll do everything I can to help you.
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If nothing else, take comfort in the fact that despite him doing the dumping I'll bet my last buck that he's missing you just as much as you're missing him. That piece of information has probably done more to confuse you than comfort you so let me try to explain what I've learned from seeing loads of real life cases.
There isn't one single definitive reason why men dump women but at the same time there aren't many. When you peel back the layers I've managed to boil it down to fundamentally just 3 reasons.
1) - Men dump women because she's too needy.
When you're in love you just can't get enough of the person can you? You could eat, live and breathe them, wrap them in your arms and never let them go. Well ladies, this is the number one reason why men dump women. Wanting to be with your guy all the time and not even letting him have a round of golf with his buddies without sending him numerous texts really gets on a guys nerves. You see, women are happy to be texting and receiving texts and calls when they're out with their friends or shopping, they feel wanted and loved whereas men feel suffocated and trapped.
2) - Men Dump Women if the relationship was never meant to be serious
Women have historically been groomed to be little princesses that are waiting for their knights in shining armour to whisk them off, have a fairytale wedding and have beautiful babies, and don't get me wrong ladies, you are princesses that should be treasured. The trouble is men to a certain extent remain boys. They don't particularly crave commitment and responsibility. Bringing up these topics too quickly is a sure fire way to make him bolt into the sunset on his own and not with you. I am of course generalizing here as some men are happy to discuss these sooner than others.
3) - Men dump women who aren't independent.
When a man feels that he's the focal point of a woman's life, that it's all about him and that she has no other interests besides him, then he can find the woman boring and predictable. Although they love to spend time with you, if you have nothing more to your conversation than what you've cooked them for dinner then the walls start to close in on them.
I hope this has gone someway to answering why men dump women.
Samson Hart is an acclaimed love guru in his own right and has helped many couples get back together and go on to have happy, fulfilled relationships and in some cases even marriage. He has a wealth of advice and help on his website To Get Your Ex Back Now where you can find out more about Samson, his story and a host of resources
So, why do men dump women? They might be their girlfriends, wives or just lovers, what is the root reason and answer to the question? One thing's for sure, if you're the one who's been dumped, the quest to find the answer to why men dump women is a real hot potato.
If you're the injured party and you're reading this to find the answer to the six million dollar question then firstly let me start by giving you a virtual hug and a reassurance that if you want to turn the situation back round, I'll do everything I can to help you.
If nothing else, take comfort in the fact that despite him doing the dumping I'll bet my last buck that he's missing you just as much as you're missing him. That piece of information has probably done more to confuse you than comfort you so let me try to explain what I've learned from seeing loads of real life cases.
There isn't one single definitive reason why men dump women but at the same time there aren't many. When you peel back the layers I've managed to boil it down to fundamentally just 3 reasons.
1) - Men dump women because she's too needy.
When you're in love you just can't get enough of the person can you? You could eat, live and breathe them, wrap them in your arms and never let them go. Well ladies, this is the number one reason why men dump women. Wanting to be with your guy all the time and not even letting him have a round of golf with his buddies without sending him numerous texts really gets on a guys nerves. You see, women are happy to be texting and receiving texts and calls when they're out with their friends or shopping, they feel wanted and loved whereas men feel suffocated and trapped.
2) - Men Dump Women if the relationship was never meant to be serious
Women have historically been groomed to be little princesses that are waiting for their knights in shining armour to whisk them off, have a fairytale wedding and have beautiful babies, and don't get me wrong ladies, you are princesses that should be treasured. The trouble is men to a certain extent remain boys. They don't particularly crave commitment and responsibility. Bringing up these topics too quickly is a sure fire way to make him bolt into the sunset on his own and not with you. I am of course generalizing here as some men are happy to discuss these sooner than others.
3) - Men dump women who aren't independent.
When a man feels that he's the focal point of a woman's life, that it's all about him and that she has no other interests besides him, then he can find the woman boring and predictable. Although they love to spend time with you, if you have nothing more to your conversation than what you've cooked them for dinner then the walls start to close in on them.
I hope this has gone someway to answering why men dump women.
Samson Hart is an acclaimed love guru in his own right and has helped many couples get back together and go on to have happy, fulfilled relationships and in some cases even marriage. He has a wealth of advice and help on his website To Get Your Ex Back Now where you can find out more about Samson, his story and a host of resources