My Boyfriend Dumped Me - Where Do I Go From Here?
It was an ugly ending to something that had such a beautiful beginning.
Now you're left wondering what hit you and thinking "My boyfriend dumped me!" I have no idea what to do next.
Your first thoughts might be related to revenge, removing certain parts of his anatomy, or finding out who the evil woman is that's taken your man away.
After those moments of shock the anger will wear off and you'll begin wondering what you did wrong, what's wrong with you, why you weren't good enough, and how can you get him back?
These are all normal thoughts to have and perfectly valid parts of the grieving process when a relationship reaches and unexpected, and unwanted, end.
The big question that seems to have no answer is where you should go from here. The problem is that you are the only person that can really answer that question and you probably aren't thinking right just yet.
The first thing you need to do is give it a little time. Don't go crowding him in with all your questions, accusations, doubts, and insecurities. Don't beat him up, roll his car, or paint his poodle pink.
Wait. Give him time to realize what life is like without you. Give yourself to rediscover your amazing contribution to the relationship and the community at large.
You must also take enough time to realize that you alone are not responsible for all that was good or bad in the relationship. You both played a role.
Once you understand this you can decide if you believe the relationship was worth fighting for or if you're ready to let him go.
If your answer is to fight to get your man back you need to go into battle prepared. Step one from this free v
It was an ugly ending to something that had such a beautiful beginning.
Now you're left wondering what hit you and thinking "My boyfriend dumped me!" I have no idea what to do next.
Your first thoughts might be related to revenge, removing certain parts of his anatomy, or finding out who the evil woman is that's taken your man away.
After those moments of shock the anger will wear off and you'll begin wondering what you did wrong, what's wrong with you, why you weren't good enough, and how can you get him back?
These are all normal thoughts to have and perfectly valid parts of the grieving process when a relationship reaches and unexpected, and unwanted, end.
The big question that seems to have no answer is where you should go from here. The problem is that you are the only person that can really answer that question and you probably aren't thinking right just yet.
The first thing you need to do is give it a little time. Don't go crowding him in with all your questions, accusations, doubts, and insecurities. Don't beat him up, roll his car, or paint his poodle pink.
Wait. Give him time to realize what life is like without you. Give yourself to rediscover your amazing contribution to the relationship and the community at large.
You must also take enough time to realize that you alone are not responsible for all that was good or bad in the relationship. You both played a role.
Once you understand this you can decide if you believe the relationship was worth fighting for or if you're ready to let him go.
If your answer is to fight to get your man back you need to go into battle prepared. Step one from this free v
It was an ugly ending to something that had such a beautiful beginning.
Now you're left wondering what hit you and thinking "My boyfriend dumped me!" I have no idea what to do next.
Your first thoughts might be related to revenge, removing certain parts of his anatomy, or finding out who the evil woman is that's taken your man away.
After those moments of shock the anger will wear off and you'll begin wondering what you did wrong, what's wrong with you, why you weren't good enough, and how can you get him back?
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These are all normal thoughts to have and perfectly valid parts of the grieving process when a relationship reaches and unexpected, and unwanted, end.
The big question that seems to have no answer is where you should go from here. The problem is that you are the only person that can really answer that question and you probably aren't thinking right just yet.
The first thing you need to do is give it a little time. Don't go crowding him in with all your questions, accusations, doubts, and insecurities. Don't beat him up, roll his car, or paint his poodle pink.
Wait. Give him time to realize what life is like without you. Give yourself to rediscover your amazing contribution to the relationship and the community at large.
You must also take enough time to realize that you alone are not responsible for all that was good or bad in the relationship. You both played a role.
Once you understand this you can decide if you believe the relationship was worth fighting for or if you're ready to let him go.
If your answer is to fight to get your man back you need to go into battle prepared. Step one from this free v
It was an ugly ending to something that had such a beautiful beginning.
Now you're left wondering what hit you and thinking "My boyfriend dumped me!" I have no idea what to do next.
Your first thoughts might be related to revenge, removing certain parts of his anatomy, or finding out who the evil woman is that's taken your man away.
After those moments of shock the anger will wear off and you'll begin wondering what you did wrong, what's wrong with you, why you weren't good enough, and how can you get him back?
These are all normal thoughts to have and perfectly valid parts of the grieving process when a relationship reaches and unexpected, and unwanted, end.
The big question that seems to have no answer is where you should go from here. The problem is that you are the only person that can really answer that question and you probably aren't thinking right just yet.
The first thing you need to do is give it a little time. Don't go crowding him in with all your questions, accusations, doubts, and insecurities. Don't beat him up, roll his car, or paint his poodle pink.
Wait. Give him time to realize what life is like without you. Give yourself to rediscover your amazing contribution to the relationship and the community at large.
You must also take enough time to realize that you alone are not responsible for all that was good or bad in the relationship. You both played a role.
Once you understand this you can decide if you believe the relationship was worth fighting for or if you're ready to let him go.
If your answer is to fight to get your man back you need to go into battle prepared. Step one from this free v