Healing Yourself After Being Dumped
So, he/she has dumped you, right? Or at least you are in a fear of being dumped, eh? However, if these are not the cases with you then I wish you the best. Anyways, coming back to the topic which was about either you are dumped or about to being dumped, ONE most important question arises, WHY? Hey! I know, I know this question is usually followed by many and many other similar questions but they don't hold such importance. The answer to this simple "WHY?" is that he/she found someone better.
Well, it might not be true but it is at least he/she thinks and this is exactly why you are dumped. So, what you plan to do next? Running after him/her, chasing him/her, investigating how far his/her new relationship has succeeded, where they met, what is their best dating place, have they begun exchanging gifts, have they went as far kissing each other or further, Right? OR in the other scenario, are you planning on to crying over the spilt milk, staying up all night, going on pills, cutting yourself, telling every person who you meet, what has happened to you?
Hey! Wait, you better ask yourself, would any single of the above mentioned things are going to help you? NO, of course. So what you better be doing is to take this moment to pledge that you will leave no stone unturned in improving yourself. Let these scars heal you, not only heal you but to improve you. Instead of wasting your time, you should be benefiting from it. Ask yourself, if he/she finds out that you are doing all the above mentioned things, would he/she come back to you? Or if after sometime he/she finds out that you have started earning more or your social status has considerably risen, would he/she repent or try cashing on the past relationship? YES!
The best method to improve yourself quickly is to capitalizing on your strengths. You must be great in doing something, start doing that with more passion involved as it is the quickest method to have your revenge fulfilled. Meanwhile, try finding something which you haven't already done with full swing but always wanted to do that. For example, if you have always wished to be good at dancing but never found time then now is the time to start taking dance classes. I bet you will feel better.
If you continue upon improving yourself for a few months, you will not only come out of the vicious circle of the feeling of being rejected but as a matter of fact you will gain a lot. You will not only gain peace at mind and heart but a complete new identity. Just remember, if you are adding something to yourself, you will have the attention you needed from somewhere. On the contrary, if you are giving something a lot of yourself, you will definitely lose many things. So, what are your plans now?
So, he/she has dumped you, right? Or at least you are in a fear of being dumped, eh? However, if these are not the cases with you then I wish you the best. Anyways, coming back to the topic which was about either you are dumped or about to being dumped, ONE most important question arises, WHY? Hey! I know, I know this question is usually followed by many and many other similar questions but they don't hold such importance. The answer to this simple "WHY?" is that he/she found someone better.
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Well, it might not be true but it is at least he/she thinks and this is exactly why you are dumped. So, what you plan to do next? Running after him/her, chasing him/her, investigating how far his/her new relationship has succeeded, where they met, what is their best dating place, have they begun exchanging gifts, have they went as far kissing each other or further, Right? OR in the other scenario, are you planning on to crying over the spilt milk, staying up all night, going on pills, cutting yourself, telling every person who you meet, what has happened to you?
Hey! Wait, you better ask yourself, would any single of the above mentioned things are going to help you? NO, of course. So what you better be doing is to take this moment to pledge that you will leave no stone unturned in improving yourself. Let these scars heal you, not only heal you but to improve you. Instead of wasting your time, you should be benefiting from it. Ask yourself, if he/she finds out that you are doing all the above mentioned things, would he/she come back to you? Or if after sometime he/she finds out that you have started earning more or your social status has considerably risen, would he/she repent or try cashing on the past relationship? YES!
The best method to improve yourself quickly is to capitalizing on your strengths. You must be great in doing something, start doing that with more passion involved as it is the quickest method to have your revenge fulfilled. Meanwhile, try finding something which you haven't already done with full swing but always wanted to do that. For example, if you have always wished to be good at dancing but never found time then now is the time to start taking dance classes. I bet you will feel better.
If you continue upon improving yourself for a few months, you will not only come out of the vicious circle of the feeling of being rejected but as a matter of fact you will gain a lot. You will not only gain peace at mind and heart but a complete new identity. Just remember, if you are adding something to yourself, you will have the attention you needed from somewhere. On the contrary, if you are giving something a lot of yourself, you will definitely lose many things. So, what are your plans now?
So, he/she has dumped you, right? Or at least you are in a fear of being dumped, eh? However, if these are not the cases with you then I wish you the best. Anyways, coming back to the topic which was about either you are dumped or about to being dumped, ONE most important question arises, WHY? Hey! I know, I know this question is usually followed by many and many other similar questions but they don't hold such importance. The answer to this simple "WHY?" is that he/she found someone better.
Well, it might not be true but it is at least he/she thinks and this is exactly why you are dumped. So, what you plan to do next? Running after him/her, chasing him/her, investigating how far his/her new relationship has succeeded, where they met, what is their best dating place, have they begun exchanging gifts, have they went as far kissing each other or further, Right? OR in the other scenario, are you planning on to crying over the spilt milk, staying up all night, going on pills, cutting yourself, telling every person who you meet, what has happened to you?
Hey! Wait, you better ask yourself, would any single of the above mentioned things are going to help you? NO, of course. So what you better be doing is to take this moment to pledge that you will leave no stone unturned in improving yourself. Let these scars heal you, not only heal you but to improve you. Instead of wasting your time, you should be benefiting from it. Ask yourself, if he/she finds out that you are doing all the above mentioned things, would he/she come back to you? Or if after sometime he/she finds out that you have started earning more or your social status has considerably risen, would he/she repent or try cashing on the past relationship? YES!
The best method to improve yourself quickly is to capitalizing on your strengths. You must be great in doing something, start doing that with more passion involved as it is the quickest method to have your revenge fulfilled. Meanwhile, try finding something which you haven't already done with full swing but always wanted to do that. For example, if you have always wished to be good at dancing but never found time then now is the time to start taking dance classes. I bet you will feel better.
If you continue upon improving yourself for a few months, you will not only come out of the vicious circle of the feeling of being rejected but as a matter of fact you will gain a lot. You will not only gain peace at mind and heart but a complete new identity. Just remember, if you are adding something to yourself, you will have the attention you needed from somewhere. On the contrary, if you are giving something a lot of yourself, you will definitely lose many things. So, what are your plans now?